You do not fall in love only once

You do not fall in love only once

Many people claim that you can only fall in love once, while the rest of the emotional affiliations with a person are nothing more than mere infatuations and crushes. I beg to differ as I believe that there is no limit to the amount of times you come across
true love. Just because a love story does not have a happy ending, it quite absurd to fall under the impression that it was not true love.

I believe that whenever you come across a person who matches your frequency, shares your interests, understands your sense of humour, is able to emphasize with your feelings, has a genuine interested in listening to what you have to say and trusts you with
her most intimate thoughts and secrets, then there is absolutely no reason to abstain from losing your heart to that person.

There is absolutely nothing to support the claim that one can only come across such a person once and should only fall in love with that person. One may come across a number of people who show off the exact characteristics as mentioned earlier and be a potential
love interest.

However, there is one thing that a person needs to understand quite clearly. When a person is in love, he does not look around for another companion. His world revolves around that particular love interest and he wants nothing more than to be his beloved’s
arms, spending one’s entire life next to that person.

However, love, like almost everything else in this world, is vulnerable. Things may happen that affect the intensity of love. Sometimes this affect is positive, while in other cases the affect turns out to be harmful. When something happens that affects
the heart negatively, it is only natural to find the feelings weaken. As time passes, these feelings begin to disappear and the beloved begins to seem like a stranger. A lot of this is related to the fact that the beloved begins to lose their original characteristics
and start becoming a different person.

Instead of sticking to someone who has suddenly transformed into a complete stranger, it is best to move on, obviously after trying to bring everything back to normal once. Regardless of what everyone says, nobody can fall in love with a person without forming
a strong bond with their characteristics.

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Posted by Muhammad Qasim Hassan on Dec 21 2011. Filed under Opinion. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0. You can leave a response or trackback to this entry