Moving on from a heart-break

Moving on from a heart-break

Letting go is one of the hardest but definitely most important thing to do after a relationship does not end well. Holding on to something that has already finished only serves does not only keeps the pain from fading, but actually makes it even worse. Therefore,
it is best to pull yourself together and leave the depressing experience behind while walking towards a better future.

One needs to begin with destroying every piece of evidence that acts as a reminder of a person who is evidently not a part of your destiny. Rather than wasting your time day-dreaming about that person by looking at the items that remind you of her, it is
best to simply dispose it off.

Things such as saved e-mails, text messages and photographs of that person only serve to push you into depression. Therefore, it is best to delete those items if they lie in your computer, e-mail or cell phone, or burn them if they are in physical form.

Another thing that you need to do is stop discussing her with anyone, even your friends. Talking about that person simply keeps her alive and around you, filling your mind with the exact feelings that you should be getting rid of. Talking about that person
opens up various possible options and futures, which in turn create hope and leads you to do something that is likely to fail.

One of the most important thing in letting go of a person and putting an end to your misery if by making sure that no matter how strong the temptation is, you will not give in to it and try to get in touch with that person. Attempts to get in touch with
her are useless as this would give her the opportunity to insult and hurt you even more. Instead of letting her feel that it was her decision to move away from you, make her feel that the loss was entirely hers.

While all these measures may seem a bit difficult in the beginning, one most understand that these are for the best. There has never been anyone who has managed to claim victory over fate. The sooner we embrace it regardless of how pathetic it is, the better
off we will be.

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Posted by Muhammad Qasim Hassan on Jan 1 2012. Filed under Opinion. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0. You can leave a response or trackback to this entry